After the Inauguration

This historical inauguration will topple the history books for sure.  No election has stirred such controversy and hatred in our society. We went from a society that respected your political beliefs, just as your religious beliefs, to a society where people are afraid to state their opinion for fear of violence and even fear of losing friendships. In the end, is this really worth it?!

When you live your life to the fullest, you are not concerned about the everyday workings of our government. Yes, you are interested in impending tax hikes, military situations, and the future of social security.  Those issues affect all of us. Do we honestly believe that protesting and belittling others with opposite opinions is a way to achieve our common goals? Our common goals are peace, safety and feeling confident when we are ready to settle into retirement that we have made proper, educated choices.

We cannot go on social media to “catch up” with people around us without being bombarded by constant political talk and bashing of those with opposite opinions.  I want to instead catch up with my high school friend’s new grandchild, or a special birthday party of a distant cousin and not hear opinions ad nauseum about Trump and the opposing Democrats.  How about I don’t care.  I was brought up to respect authority, a world long gone.  He is our President and will be for the next four years.  Instead of continuing on and on every single day, sit back and see what happens.  Campaign promises are given to be broken and have been by every single president.  So lets see what happens.  In the meantime, give your child a hug, read that book on your table, go back to lunches where we talk about the latest show, and most of all take your life back.    That is what I plan to do…..

Don’t you want your life back to before this election?

Elaine Gallagher

 

Veteran’s Day Hopes

So it is now two days after the most upsetting Presidential election in history. I think America should be ready to get back to our lives and focus on  building a better country. Two days of outrage on Social Media, riots across the country, flag burning and even defecating in public have painted a very immature picture of America to the rest of the world.  We should instead embrace our new President and his hopes for a better America. We may not agree with all his philosophies, but with his appointed constituents of intellectual and politically savvy counterparts, let’s hope for a better country where we can stand together as one to make America great again!!!!

Before the Vote

I am sitting here watching the Giants game in the quiet, coziness of my home.  I just finished seeing two commercials back to back — one for Clinton and one for Trump. I couldn’t tell you which one was which at this point.  Between social media, TV and just being in the outside world, all we hear about is this election.  I can only tell you that at this point in time I only know how much they hate each other.  I will not be able to tell you one position that either of them has.  I am just feeling depressed and anxious.  Depressed for the ruination of my country and anxious about what lies ahead.  It seems to me that either way the American people are doomed.  To think with the millions of intelligent people living in this country we cannot get anyone else to choose from.

I know that my feelings are shared by most Americans.  They are seriously thinking about where they will move to.  The rest of the world is laughing at us now.  I wish I could fast forward to Wednesday when this will all be behind us.  I’m not saying that we will be better off.  We will be a country either run by a criminal or a very unpredictable business man with his own agenda.  I wish everyone peace and tranquility and hope that we can find joy in other aspects of our lives and not focus on the politicians that are responsible for destroying our beautiful world.

 

 

A Note to New York State –Did We Forget Our Priorities

December 5, 2015
A copy of my letter to New York State Licensing Department regarding an appalling experience at my local nail salon

“I am writing to you today regarding my experience yesterday at a local nail salon, Pick A Polish, located on 5th Avenue in Pelham, NY. As I entered the salon at 3:50, (a few minutes early for my appointment), I was treated to a scene of irate customers who were yelling at people with video cameras that were questioning everyone in the salon including owner and his employees. I decided to sit down for my pedicure and wait for my daughter despite what was going on.
Many of the customers were yelling at camera men from NBC and refusing to be filmed. Some of these intruders tried to get customers to sign waivers which they were not willing to do. At the same time, there were a few visitors from New York State Department of Labor and New York State Licensing Services. When I questioned the person from Licensing Services, a John A Goodman, he responded very rudely. I asked for his card when he left. He did not give it to me. He continued to harass the owner of the salon, Steven, even though the place was packed with customers. He was rude to him, even asking him what language he preferred, English or Korean. He harassed his employees and did not even apologize for his intrusion. Steven was trying to explain to him that his license was valid, having just been reissued as there was a typo when he re-registered the nail salon, formerly known as Tannah’s Nails. Steven owned another nail salon in Chester Heights section of Pelham/Bronxville and most of his customers continue to come to his new salon. I have a choice of going to about 10 nail salons in a five block radius but will always choose to go to Pick A Polish.
      I understand Governor Cuomo’s law regarding nail salons and employee relations. However, I feel that what occurred at this nail salon was neither appropriate nor necessary. Coupled with the aggravation by New York State employees, there were numerous cameramen from NBC outside the salon filming this entire event. I do not honestly believe that they obtained one person’s permission to be videotaped and I know that if any one of us in that nail salon was videotaped, we will take legal action.
      On a Friday afternoon after a long week of work, many women decide to go to relax with a manicure and pedicure. I, unfortunately after waiting one hour, had to leave for an appointment. I left after soaking in water for 60 minutes, with gel manicure remover on my fingers with aluminum foil. So I am writing this to you today as an irate consumer in New York. With all of the current problems in the world, it makes me agitated to think that an honest man, trying to make a living and has happy customers, is being targeted by New York State and the news media. All of us who go to Pick a Polish go there because of Steven, who gives us appointments and sticks to them. He gives us excellent service and has a wonderful group of employees who make their clientele happy. These people not only intruded to check out his credentials, but then stayed for 90 minutes, irritating everyone in the nail salon. There was no reason to treat someone the way Steven was treated, or to talk to people in a public place in the manner in which we were spoken to. If you want to check the legality of someone’s license, by all means do so, but not with the rudeness and obnoxious behavior displayed by New York State’s employees or the personnel from NBC News.
      I am writing this letter to you as one customer at Pick a Polish and can guarantee you that there are many others willing to follow regarding this unacceptable display by people who are supposed to represent important parts of New York—namely New York State Government and NBC News. I can also assure you that I will repost my letter to you on my blog so that many people outside of the small town of Pelham can see what the New York State government spends their time and money on, instead of focusing on the real problems in our society.

 After all of Steven’s paperwork is cleared up (as it is backed up by the same system that accuses people of not having proper documentation) you will see that this is an honest businessman trying to make a living who is very highly regarded in our Pelham community .

Sincerely,

Elaine Gallagher/Concerned Pelham Resident

Getting Back to Me!

So just the other day I was feeling bad about myself again.  Working hard all day and exhausted at night does not allow for successful dieting and weight loss.  I have been faithfully following this 21 day fix and measuring my food but the exercise component was almost gone.  Classes after work started again, a little Zumba and some body conditioning.  So I am on a roll.  Well, that’s what I think.  I still feel so tired I can barely get from the couch to my bed most nights.  Yes, it is exhausting teaching 2nd graders especially with the increasing demands on our profession.

Yesterday was the first day of work in November.  It was also the first day that I am promising myself to put myself first once in awhile.  Starting with taking deep breaths when I get frustrated.  Then, trying to take a positive action when I am upset.  My new plan of action begins now.  Eating foods I enjoy that are, of course, healthy and satisfying.  Second, going to a new gym to take classes and make my body go back at least five years ago. Five years ago when I quit smoking and started enjoying food more and enjoying exercise less.  I think all of us have gone through this.  Please share with me your goals and aspirations for a new you.  It’s never too late to start.  I look forward to sharing with you and joining together in our fight for overall well being and fitness!!!

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