So I was at a reading teaching workshop today and our first job was to figure out the meaning of some new words recently added to the Oxford dictionary. I am most fascinated by the word nonversation.  From someone who grew up in the 1970s and enjoyed the precomputer days as a teenager, this word reflects the new world we live in.  

Although I do admit to enjoying Facebook, Twitter, emails and surfing the web, it astonishes me how the family structure has diminished over the years In case you didn’t figure it out yet, a nonversation is a person communicating with their cellphone instead of others around them.  Yes, I feel privileged to be able to reach out to a friend by text to confirm an appointment and to peruse my emails before even getting home from work but when will it end.

Are we raising a generation of introverted, non-talkers who can only communicate using a phone or tablet? Will family dinners continue to highlight a family of four at a diner texting, surfing and playing video games instead of sharing the details of their days. Yes, I think that technology has improved our lives enormously but I do miss that human contact. Somehow I never had a problem finding my friends at night when cell phones weren’t even a thought in an inventor’s mind.  Some days I yearn for that life back. I still enjoy the feel of a brand new book or writing a card to a dear friend.

Next time you ignore someone who needs your attention and think back to the day when we all treated each other with respect and spoke face to face. Children today will not experience any of the simple things we enjoyed. They will never know the anguish of waiting for someone to call and anxiety if you left the house and missed the call. Oh yes, there were no answering machines either. OMG How did we survive with conversation ?!
Elaine Gallagher

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I am an elementary educator for over 24 years in grades K through 5. I have been freelance writing for a few years and hope to write a children's book as well as complete my first novel. Thank you for visiting my blog. I look forward to your comments and contributions. As I near retirement I commit myself to Health and Wellness to enhance my life.

8 thoughts on “Nonversation

  1. I’m completely guilty of this – I enjoy reading when I eat dinner (just happens to be on an iPad). My husband and I have discussed it and we won’t be allowing tech at the table for dinner with our children. Our first born is now 2.5 weeks old, so it’s time to set an example and get some good habits again!


  2. I sure hope that many people will take note of the positives AND negatives of always being “in touch.” The hubby and I conduct a large % of our businesses with these mediums but we still have rules at home for how to handle electronics. It is so important.


  3. I realized that I have become more comfortable catching up with friends and communicating with people via online. I sometimes miss the way back then when people go out of their way to make time meeting up with friends just to chat


    1. I️ agree. I️ do feel that sometimes texting and Facebook gives us the opportunity to reach out to people we would normally not have in the past. Also it has brought people together for reunions. I️ think the best thing is to make sure you put it aside for portions of the day and pay attention to people you are actually with.


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